CYBELIAN MARRIAGE
Cybelian Marriage is today's answer to centuries of male-dominated unions. In a Cybelian Marriage, it is the woman who is the primary partner; the man's place is always secondary - from the outset and throughout the marriage. Hence it is suitable only for unions in which the female is dominant and the male submissive. Naturally, this involves an initial agreement between the two people; requiring each party to be fully cognizant of the other one's wishes, and vowing in the Cybelian Wedding vows to remain true to the promises made. Love plays as big a part in Cybelian marriages as it does in ordinary ones, but it is coupled with the woman's contempt of the male. She may feel love for him as a person, but contempt for him as a male. Although at first this may seem paradoxical, it does actually work for both parties.
The actual tenor of a Cybelian Marriage can take several forms. The underlying principle is that the woman is in complete control of every aspect of the marriage. With that firmly understood, it is the wife's perogative to choose the aspects of Cybelianism she wishes to include in the marriage, and which ones to exclude. Some aspects are statutory; others a matter of personal choice. The first statutory aspect is that the man has absolutely no freedom - while at home he must always be naked and collared, the collar to be of the lockable variety. The second statutory aspect is that the man has no status other than that of a toilet for the woman's use. This last can be off-putting for some, but it is a prime requirement for a Cybelian marriage, in that it is the best way for the female to show her total contempt of the male, and thus maintain her position as primary partner and head of the household,
Other aspects of a Cybelian marriage which are a matter of choice include cuckoldry - wherein it is the wife's option to have sex with as many other men as she chooses, compliant physical punishments, humiliation, and extended restriction of freedom. Details of all these options can be found in the Cybelian Marriage Manual, available as an eBook direct from this website. From the above, it is easy to see why it is very important for both husband and wife to know their own minds about what they want, before they actually enter into a Cybelian marriage, as it is something that cannot be entered into lightly. It is also important that they carry-on as they have started, otherwise the whole principle of the relationship is undermined. The advantages of a Cybelian marriage are that it leaves no room for argument, and therefore it lasts.
CYBELE WEDDINGS
For those not familiar with Cybelianism, the format of Cybelian Weddings will seem somewhat unusual. As Cybelian marriage is female-dominated, so is the format of actual Cybelian Weddings. Throughout the ceremony, it is the Bride who is the primary participant; the Groom secondary. The Bride may be dressed or naked, as she chooses. The Groom must be naked and collared, to display his humiliation and future position before all present. During the making of the Vows the Bride stands - as does the Best Man; the Groom kneels.
In a Cybelian Wedding, the celebrant is a Priestess - or, if one is not available - a Deacon who has been granted wedding faculties by the Order. The function of the Deacon is also to act as Best Man - literally the best man, in that after the ceremony he is the first to copulate with the Bride before any other male guests and last of all the Groom. This resonates with the Nasamonian custom whereby all the members of the tribe copulated with the Bride before the Groom, by way of sharing in the perceived guilt of defloration. The modern-day practice in normal weddings of the Bride kissing the Best Man, originates from this custom.
It should be mentioned that Cybelian marriages - just the same as marriages within other faiths and disciplines - have also to be registered with the State. A Cybelian wedding does not remove the participants from that obligation. In most countries, a civil ceremony will have to be performed in addition to the Cybelian ceremony, if property rights are to be protected. Most civil celebrants will allow a diluted form of the Cybelian vows in civil ceremonies, whereby the Groom pledges to obey the Bride in the marriage. |
